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An Unexpected First

19 Wednesday Nov 2014

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Tuesday was a busy day at our Children’s hospital.  Up at 3:30 am, we got off to an early start getting organized and out the door.  Thanks to J for getting the boys changed and in their seats, and thanks to D for accompanying me on the trip for a very useful extra set of hands!

There were two planned appointments: Vision assessments for both boys, and a lingering upper GI appointment for Landon as a pre-surgery check.

Vision was first.  The boys have what is called Cortical Vision Impairment.  Essentially, it is a neurological (brain) rather than ocular (eye) based impairment.  We have a lot to learn about the boys’ CVI and Tuesday was a good start on that path.  They performed a few different tests to check response rates, and various other aspects of the communication from eye to brain.  I was allowed to help their eyes open for the first test, which involved a lot of strobe and blinking lights.  The second test involved simply colored, slow-moving shapes and pictures projected on to a wall in a dark room.  A video camera recorded their eye movements.  And they needed to actively participate.  Not surprisingly, Nolan surprised me.  He needed a few minutes, but eventually started clearly noticing and observing the wall.  I can’t say yet how the DR will assess his vision, or if there is much ability to work with, but I believe Nolan gave them the best test attempt we could have asked for.  Landon found the whole exercise silly, and chose not to participate.  🙂  But hopefully we can infer a thing or two from Nolan’s test.  And we’re already putting together some good therapy ideas.

The Upper GI went well, and they observed what they needed to for Landon’s pre-surgery checkout.  In the meantime, they were able to confirm the proper placement of Landon’s NJ tube as well.  Speaking of which, that bring us to the unplanned detour of the day.

Monday night, Landon’s tube quit working.  The pump would alarm, and did not fix even after replacing the bag and hookup.  We tried manually clearing his tube, but could not budge any liquids in or out.  Since it was already evening time, and he would have to fast for a few hours before his upper GI anyway, we decided to stop attempting feeds, and let the hospital determine what was wrong. Unlike the NG tubes, we can not move or replace Landon’s NJ tube without help from radiology.  I told D the plan Tuesday morning, and she agreed we were fine skipping the small amount of formula, and commented about what she used to do to fix that issue.  So in between Vision and the Upper GI appointment, we visited radiology for an NJ check.  Between waiting to get squeezed in, and a lengthy registration process, we ended up filling up what was supposed to be our relaxing two-hour lunch break.  During that time, the nurse joked about the same home remedy D mentioned.  So after a two-hour wait, that nurse checked in their “supplies” and found one remaining can of the secret ingredient that works great at unplugging tubes.

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It took some pretty strong pushing, but sure enough, the tube cleared up with a little Coke. I’m not sure if that’s a commercial for it or not.  But nonetheless, we now know a quick fix at home.  And sweet Landon had an unexpected first.  His first Coke.

Landon Coke

12 Months! (Ish)

18 Tuesday Nov 2014

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L and N are 12 months old (sort of).  Ok, minor detail.  I had planned to do this on their due date, but that came and went during Landon’s pneumonia.  So here we have the 12th and final installment!

L:

Weight – 21 lbs 3 oz

Food – Landon is currently taking a constant feed via an NJ tube.  His rate is 40 ml per hour, roughly 32 ounces per day.  A G-tube surgery is planned for early December, and once the dust settles, we plan to get back to working on oral feeds.  Even if just for spoon feeding, and a bottle or two per day.

Accomplishments – Coming out of TWO hospital stays!  Landon is very vocal now, making coos, ahhs, and growls throughout the day.  He had a setback in terms of tone, (as would any of us who were sick for 4 out of 6 weeks) but he will get there!

Likes – Hand rubs, being talked to, and lights.

Other – Wearing 18 month clothes (24 month in hand me downs) and size 4 diapers. Sleeps so peacefully and wakes up smiling!

N:

Weight – 21 pounds!!!  (Holy smokes!)

Food – Nolan is still on NG, taking five 6 oz bottles per day.  Like Landon, he will have the G-tube soon, and we will also work on getting back to some oral feeding once he is ready.

Accomplishments – Coming out of a hospital stay, more responsive smiles, more alert time.

Likes – Leg massages, tummy rubs and being talked to. 

Other – Wearing 18 month clothes and size 4 diapers. Sleeps great!

Moments I don’t want to forget:

  • The combined three hospital stays.  They are so tough and continue to amaze us.
  • Watching Landon’s ambulance lights kick on.
  • Introducing them to more family at the reunion.
  • Their first birthday party!
  • Having so many join in the celebration with the hero challenge.

And now…their 12 month photos!

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And let’s not forget how far they’ve come!

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Putting the CARE in Day Care

17 Monday Nov 2014

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We started a new phase in the boys’ lives today. They will be home during the day, under the watchful and loving eye of a Nanny that I’m fairly sure God sent to us. We are very excited about this change for a number of reasons. For selfish reasons, our morning and afternoon routines will be easier. But more importantly, we can work on improving the environment for the boys at home, knowing that will now be the place they spend most of their time.  (More therapy items, positioning, equipment, etc.)   And…appointments like home health and early intervention therapies will be in the comfort of their own home, with no rushing involved. Another obvious benefit, particularly since we’ve spent (a combined) 30 nights in the hospital the last two months, is that we will hopefully avoid a few germs and bugs by removing them from the more public environment of day care before winter hits.

 

If you were going to design someone for us, you would probably want someone who loves babies, but also has a medical background. That would be perfect, right? We thought so too. Welcome to the team D!  🙂

 

All that said – I wanted to take the time to brag on the day cares we’ve used for the boys. From January to August, they were cared for by a team who knew us well and had helped us raise K. They prayed and worried right along with us during the pregnancy. I had meetings ahead of time to figure out what they would be comfortable taking on, knowing we might have feeding tubes, shunts, seizures, or countless other needs. When the time came, we discovered we mostly had babies who needed love. And they provided that in abundance. This crew helped me learn about the boys. Feeding skills came and went and came again. There were endless amounts of spitup and laundry. We all learned a few tricks together, and shared them. We celebrated every time tiny N crossed another pound. It was at that day care L had his first infantile spasm, which we caught on video during therapy. Of all the people I had to tell we were moving, I dreaded telling Mrs. Kim the most. And sure enough, we both cried at the thought of it, and even harder when that last day finally came.

 

From August until now they have been with a new team who did not know us ahead of time, but even still welcomed the boys and all their complications with open arms. We’ve had a rough 3 months medically, but they never pushed back, never said no, and always took great care of L and N.   We’ve added feeding tubes, had patchy attendance, balanced learning new jobs and establishing new doctors, and have had some illness thrown in. And all along, they’ve provided patient, loving hands.

 

The boys have been blessed with wonderful caretakers from day one. We are so thankful for that and they will forever have our gratitude.  And in some ways, these two will always be their babies.

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